We were lucky. Extremely lucky. Our first two babies were easy, and have I mentioned amazing sleepers? Then, SURPRISE! Our third pregnancy blessed us with two babies – identical twin boys, who weren’t so easy :) Not only were we outnumbered, but just after being released from the NICU, crying rocked our world. There was SO.MUCH.CRYING! When one boy fell asleep, the other started up. We even heard crying in our heads when they weren’t crying, and I was convinced I had gone crazy, along with our two year old - who after about two months literally snapped, especially in confined spaces…
UPDATE: We've now added one more baby to our family, and I recently discovered a product that helps keep on top of gas issues. It's posted as #11 below, but isn't shown on the image.Out of desperation I began researching colic remedies and had a difficult time finding one place that gave me more than one suggestion. After hours of research, reading the different suggestions many of you gave us, and spending 7 months with two colicky babies, I’ve finally compiled what we learned.
1. HEATING PAD - Cruiz never reacted to the heating pad, but it did help Cannon calm down a little. Put it around their tummy, and then swaddle them up. This is the heating pad we use.
2. GRIPE WATER – I know gripe water is the first thing people recommended, and is pretty inexpensive, so I’d start here. There are many different kinds, and we tried them all, but we noticed the gripe water with peppermint helped the most, but still didn’t do much for our twin boys.
3. COLIC TABLETS - We started off with these colic tablets. These worked great with Ledger, our second child, but didn’t have the strength we needed with our twins. I was later told to dissolve them in gripe water, and the mix of the two does the trick.
4. GAS RELIEF DROPS – Our babies were gassy. It’s true. I bought these gas relief drops and after I gave them a dose, they would start burping and passing gas, which always makes for a happy baby.
5. ESSENTIAL OILS – So many people suggested oils! Lavender is known for calming, and peppermint helps with pain, I know many people who have benefited from essential oils, but it didn’t seem to help our boys. I was told to drop a couple drops of peppermint in a bottle and it would help soothe their stomachs. But I love the idea of a natural remedy to help with my babies.
6.COLIC CALM – Oh baby, this stuff is AMAZING! It’s pricey, but it’s a small price to pay for sanity. Don’t let the black color turn you off, with a little spray and wash, it came out of everything. We called it black magic in our house. It didn’t solve our problem, but it would help sooth them almost instantly. Until we worked with a doctor this was by the most helpful product. Find it at Walgreens or Amazon.
7. BABY ZANTAC OF PREVACID – Our babies spit up everything all hours of the day, and then would scream terribly. It seemed like their spit up was burning their throats. It took us about three months to figure this one out, but both babies had acid reflux. Our pediatrician prescribed baby zantac, and the boys were given two small doses a day and it’s made the biggest difference! (Quite common in preemie twins)
8. CHIROPRACTOR – I had a friend refer me to Madison Ridge Chiropractic in Rexburg, ID because they work on children up to a year for free. I thought if it didn’t cost me anything, it wouldn’t hurt to try. To be honest I was skeptic, but after Dr. Roderick explained the process, and showed me what the babies would feel I said lets give it a try. The first couple of weeks I went 2-3 times each week, and then about once a week until they were 8 months. And it seriously makes the BIGGEST difference! Every time we went, within 4-6 hours both boys will poop at the exact same time, (I kid you not) and most often a blowout, and would instantly smile, and fall asleep for hours. The chiropractor explained colic is related to stomach problems, and when their little bodies are aligned, everything inside runs better and more effectively. Both boys had issues filling a diaper regularly, and our visits to the chiropractor fixed that problem. We were also grateful because we learned Cruiz had torticollis, where his neck was kinked and he always looked to the right, (common for twins, because its such a tight fit in the womb). Dr. Roderick fixed his little neck, and I grew to love the man. After a couple of months the boys both boys started acting a little better for awhile, and I took a few weeks off thinking I didn’t need to go anymore, but slowly they returned to their old ways. Once I returned, the crying lessened. I’m a full - fledged believer of this one!
9. PROBIOTICS – I had a surprising amount of comments left about this item, so I gave it a try. Healthline.com says, “Researchers at an Italian university reported that giving infants a probiotic during their first three months of life can help prevent stomach problems like colic from developing.” To my amazement, it helped. When I added this along with the zantac, we almost had normal babies…almost. It may seem pricey, but a little goes a long ways. This is the brand we used.
10. NUTRAMIGEN – Seven months later, I finally hit my breaking point, and ended up at my pediatrician’s office on a Saturday morning in tears. After discussing the boys’ history, our pediatrician wanted to switch their formula. We first tried Enfamil Gentlease, and later switched to Nutramigen (formula to help with a cows milk allergy) It’s crazy expensive, but learned from many of our readers that WIC will help with it, and if you have twins, contact your pediatrician, and even Enfamil, they help twin moms out. But within 3 days, (It takes 3 days for formula to get out of a baby’s system) our boys stopped crying, and even began sleeping at night. It was the first time we saw our boys actually function. This formula completely changed our lives, learn more about it {here}.
11. Windi - If your child is gassy or constipated, do yourself a favor and order this right away! When I first read about it, I was little weirded out, but I promise it works! I felt like it enabled me to stay ahead of the gassy and fussy issues, and kept my baby super happy. My suggestion is to rub your baby's tummy for a few minutes, and then insert the windi. I always let it sit for a little longer than recommended, and every single time my baby was able to fill her diaper. Just remember to keep the diaper around the opposite end or it will make a gross mess!
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Here’s to hoping something on the list helps. If not, give me a call, I’ll be more than happy to come babysit so you can drive to the nearest frozen yogurt shop, eat your emotions away, and sit in silence, all the while giving yourself a pep talk, that you really can get through the next day… which I did a little too often :)And now that I’m on the other end, I can say it was totally worth it.
Hi Ashley! I'm in Australia but happy to give you a call so you can come and look after my pair of special needs blessings any time you want to fly across the world for a little quiet :) Great post and truly wonderful video of Ledger. I hope all the boys appreciate your amazing-ness in future years.
ReplyDeleteAh! I could've used this post 2 years ago when my son was new! lol He had really really bad colic and silent reflux.. I didn't know if we were going to survive with him. Luckily my pediatrician also suggested Zantac around 2 months and he was on it until 6 months and it was a life saver! We also used the gas drops too. I will definitely be saving this post for my next newborn!!! Thank you!!!
ReplyDeleteNUTRAMAGEN is a dream!!!!! Saved our lives too!
ReplyDeleteYou have to be so super careful with essential oils on babies. Peppermint is not recommended for children under the age of 6. Peppermint is a hot oil, meaning, if it is used undiluted it will burn your skin, and can be very painful. Same with ingesting peppermint, it will burn your esophagus and can cause permanent damage. If you are wanting to use essential oils on a baby, I would highly, HIGHLY recommend finding a trained aromatherapist to assist you in finding the best oils and safest applications on your little one!
ReplyDeleteJen in MB
Good post for babies with colic....the photo of Patrick just cracks me up!! That look says it all. I'm glad you found remedies and the babies are growing and out of that colic stage. Your boys are so darling.
ReplyDeleteThe video of Ledger crying literally breaks my heart!! Poor little guy! I can imagine that amount of screaming made you all crazy, I had two colicky babies but at different times. I can't imagine having two at once!! So glad you are on the other side!!
ReplyDeleteBless your mommy heart. My first born had terrible "colic" too, that turned out to be a allergy to the protein in cow's milk. It took us five months of non-stop crying and many trips to the GI doctor to get it figured out. We were put on an elemental formula, actually the amino acid version of nutramigen, and it made a world of difference. It was by far the hardest five months of my entire life. I can not imagine what it must have been like with two of them like that.
ReplyDeletegood post
ReplyDeleteWe've been using chiropractics and Nutrition Response Testing with our family for the past year. It was our desperate last resort when conventional medicine wasn't working, and I wish it had been our first resort. We have five kids under eight years old. We just had our fifth and it's been the best pregnancy and new baby experience so far. We love your blog...always something new to learn from your experiences.
ReplyDeleteNotify Post!!! Heart touching video!!!
ReplyDeleteColic is not fun, it is terrible. We, as a parents have to be super carfull & have to prepare ourself emotionally and mentally. It is very difficult to manage colicky babies. One of my friend suggested me many home remedies from the website colickyremedies.com & it has many tips. Hope it helps you guys too.
Simethicone: Gas Relief Drops worked well for us. Which led me to consider a way to reduce gas without medication. I am working on a milk/formula degasser called Baby DeGas. You can see a video of the prototype and details here
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