January 17 – February 17
Personalities
Cannon Ball – If I didn’t know better, I would think we switched the boys up. (We didn’t, I promise) Cannon, who used to be the intense, active one, is now laid back and much quieter than his brother. He’s a lot like his mom, and needs his own personal space at times. He’s happiest when he has a toy in his hands, and loves watching me cook in his bumbo. Recently he has become much more aware of his surroundings, and has become a momma’s boy. (Now I have two) He is thrilled when he’s put in my moby wrap and will squeal and kick the entire time.
Cruizer – Mild lazy Cruiz turned into the instigator. Seriously, he usually has Cannon in tears once a day (at least) and has figured out how to roll/scoot his way around the room. (But won’t sit) He likes to chomp on Cannon’s toes, or steal his toys. He has no concept that his brother likes his own space. When he’s happy, he’s soo incredibly cute, but when he’s upset, watch out, this boy has developed some lungs. He loves giving slobbery kisses when he’s excited, and people are always commenting on his dimple, (That’s how Grandpa Sullenger tells them apart). Cruiz loves anyone who will pick him up, and definitely is a social, cuddly little thing.
I left these two laying on the ground while I changed Ledger’s diaper in the other room. Within minutes, Cannon was hysterical. Cruiz managed to get on the other side of Can (I think rolled over him) somehow undid Cannon’s diaper, and was gauging his eye out, all the while with a huge grin on his face. So naturally, the first thing I did was grab the camera :)
Difficult - I’m repeatedly asked if one twin is harder than the other. No. It’s crazy, it seems like Monday rolls around and suddenly the hard one becomes happy and visa versa. Though it’s frustrating I can’t seem to figure out how to keep them happy all the time, I think it’s a blessing. I’m just being honest, if one cried for six months, and the other one didn’t, it would be really hard not to favor one over the other…
Teething - Once we got the acid reflux under control again, we had an awesome week with two happy babies. Suddenly Cruiz went back to his old ways and at the end of the month I was relieved to know something was wrong…(sometimes it seems like they thrive off crying) his two bottom teeth popped up, and I can tell he’s working on the top now. Cannon’s have yet to cut through, but he isn’t far behind.
Snip Snip – Boys received their first haircut!
Heavy - The boys weighed in the exact same again – 17 lbs. 7 oz. and Cruiz measured 27 1/2 in. Cannon measured 27 1/4 in. I weighed them in their car seats, and they weighed 27 lbs. So I’ve been carrying around 55 lbs. They are getting so heavy that my back has been hurting.
Leaving the House – If Pat isn’t with me, its seriously not worth the hassle. The boys are so heavy that it usually take 3-4 trips just to get in the car, and I’m usually so flustered by the end, it really just isn’t worth it. Hoping this summer it will be easier to throw them in a stroller and get out.
Sleeping – Once we pulled out the teething tablets, Orajel, and Tylenol, I’m only up a few times per night. They are still swaddled and using a sound machine.
Binky – At one point I was waking up six times a night to literally put binkies back in, which defeated the purpose, so it was time to take them away. I went cold turkey, and due to only having two bedrooms, I couldn’t let them both cry in different rooms without waking up Ledger. I decided to give in to Cannon because he likes his a little more. It took about a week, but now Cruiz is sleeping much better. Once I find the energy to do it again, I’ll take Cannon’s away…
People keep reminding me the days are long, but the years are short. I just wish we could figure out what is making them so unhappy!
Can I ask the name of your favorite swaddling blanket? The one I bought only works for a month or two, but I'd like to keep using one for a little longer.
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DeleteThat photo of them swaddled is really cute!
ReplyDeleteSo adorable Ashley....I remember trying to take my grandson places....oh my. One trip to take the purse and diaper bag out. One trip to take the stroller out. One trip to take him out (he is a big heavy 3-year-old and was an even heavier baby). One trip to go back and lock the door. It was exhausting but I did it anyway to help out my kids. But you are right...the days are long but the years go by so very fast. I took my grandson to the Safe Kids Fair on Saturday (son studying and dil working). We were there for 6 hours. Every time he got to hug and give high fives to cookie monster, the cow, the transformers, the wolf, the rhino, batman, crash dummy, bounce in the bounce houses and trampolines, talk to Captain American (that was cool), his smile was well worth the time and effort. Your 3 boys are so cute and so worth it. The twins will be walking before you know it and then....WATCH OUT!! LOL. Have a great day.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness, in that picture under the "Difficult" title, I can't believe how much the one on the left looks like your husband and the one on the right looks like Preslee!!! SOOOO cute!!! My daughter will be 6 months soon (March 10th) so I like to see how similiar (and different) she is to your boys :)
ReplyDeleteI love them, they are sooo cute! I understand why you don't go anywhere, 55lbs is a lot to haul around, yikes! We need to come visit we are getting stir-crazy here.
ReplyDeleteI read your article (or Elder Foster's) in the Ensign and then pulled up your blog and wept through the posts on Preslee. Thank you for your amazing faith and living testimony through your excruciating experiences. Your trust in the Lord has strengthened mine.
ReplyDeleteI read your story in Elder Foster's Ensign article then pulled up your blog and wept through the posts about Preslee. Thank you for your faith and living testimony through such excruciating experiences. Your trust in the Lord has strengthened mine.
ReplyDeleteYou are a rockstar!!! Every time I read your blog I am inspired to be a better mom. Can you tell me where to find those swaddlers in the picture? I have a little guy who has outgrown all of the blankets we use to swaddle him. He was a preemie too and CANNOT sleep without being wrapped up tight.
ReplyDeleteThey are so scrumptiously adorable!
ReplyDeleteFirst let me say that they are absolutely adorable. I just had my daughter 2 months ago and I don't know how you can handle 2! LOL. Another thing, where did you get those swaddlers?! I think I need one!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry...it sounds very difficult. You handle it with grace though, and you are very insightful to say if one never cried then it would be hard not to favor that one over the other...very insightful and made me think!
ReplyDeleteCould your boys have a milk intolerance? My son was constantly fussy, had pretty severe reflux, and constantly cried. Just a thought. Once we figured it out it was a complete game changer for us. You have such a beautiful family!
ReplyDeleteOh boy - I don't know how you do it, but it makes me smile so much when I see their photos. I just can't imagine how hard it must be, but I know there are so many blessings as well. I hope they both settle down for you very soon. You're all amazing! xxx
ReplyDeleteMy 21 month year old has been consistently unhappy since she was an infant. It was either teething or reflux or something. My doctor said some babies have low tolerance for pain and are just like her so she was always upset from teething or ear infections or reflux. And, to this day, she is stubborn and inpatient and whines and cries and throws temper tantrums over everything. She is the complete opposite as her older sister so some babies are just like that and I've come to accept that since my daughter is completely happy when other people watch her but it's when I'm around that she just wants me and doesn't like anyone else around me and finds it easier to complain about any and everything. A sitter watches her and they tell me she's the happiest baby in the world. Frustrating but I couldn't love her any more than I already do! You have a beautiful family and I love seeing the boys grow up!
ReplyDeleteIt might not be that they are unhappy, as the mother of 5 year old twins, I felt that way until they were a little older and realized it wasn't so much that they were cranky babies but that usually they took turns being upset. Kind of like you explaining how they flip flop personalities (mine did that too ) one was always crying they just took turns so it seemed like it was endless unhappiness. I remember shopping with them in a side by side stroller and if it didn't fit in the basket then we weren't buying it! You might ask why I didn't just shop when my husband could watch the twins but he traveled every other week from when they were 6 months to a year. You are an amazing lady and it will get easier twins are physically taxing long after you give birth to them! I now am so thankful for the ladies that would stop and say how cute they were and they had twins but now they were 12, 20, or 35. It was always accompanied with a smile and a look I now understand which is one of love and support and a reminder not that it goes by fast but that I would survive that the nights without sleep would end and the lifting and walking and exhaustion would be replaced with other things.
ReplyDeleteI love all 3 sweet boys!
ReplyDeleteI however cannot believe that the twins are 6 months old!
Goodness how time has flown by with them ash..
It seems like just yesterday you was having them!
Hi Ashley,
ReplyDeleteI would recommend trying a formula for cow's milk allergy. My son has reflux as well and things got better when we got him on meds but there still seemed to be something wrong. He was always unhappy and fussy. Finally someone brought me a formula to try (Nutramigen for cow's milk allergy. from the maker of enfamil. I am sure Similac has there own brand as well) As soon as my son was put on this formula it was like night and day. He had less spit up, he was much happier, and much more eager to eat. I was so thankful to the lady who told me to try it.
What a cute post! Ive been following your blog for sometime and I just love reading about your growing family. My sister inlaw just had triplets 3 months ago and the routine reminds me of what you've been through. Ive told them about your blog and even thought their situation is different maybe they will find some comfort through blog. http://lows-lowdown.blogspot.ca/
ReplyDeleteGraco did a recall on car seat latches. Double check to make sure yours aren't recalled. They will send you free replacements. :) hang in there. You're a warrior!
ReplyDeleteI also thought maybe a dairy intolerance?! Just a thought.
ReplyDeleteAren't they seven months old now? I remember them being born between my two newest grandsons and they're 7 and 8 months old now. Anyhow...they are absolutely adorable just like their brother and sister. Thanks for sharing their lives with us. It's fun to read the things you're dealing with and listening to my daughters and you're all going through the same things at the same time. Love your blog...a lot!
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DeleteThey do change their personality......lol. I remember once I thought I had twin A and found out at the end of the day it was actually twin b......
ReplyDeleteI have to share one last thing....I said what a big giant baby my grandson was at 6 months....he was so chubby he couldn't fit in his bumbo. Now that is big....it made me kinda sad because I saw everyone putting their babies in it and thought it would be just the ticket for my daughter-in-law...she could get some things done with him in bumbo. But no....that didn't work. Oh well. Now he's almost 4...the time flies by like you said....the days are long sometimes when we are in the thick of being moms but the years fly by way too fast.
ReplyDeleteYou are a strong, amazing woman and you can do this! My triplets just turned eight. People used to tell me that it gets easier, but that's not necessarily true. What I've found is that it doesn't get easier, it just changes. Things that you might think are hard now will become easier, but then you'll have other challenges. Just enjoy the journey because it's true ... It goes way to fast! You have a beautiful family!
ReplyDeleteI have twin boys too:) They just turned 1. I agree with Melissa. Some things get easier and some because harder. But they are so entertaining and fun! I just read how it seems they cry a lot. How is their napping? I was keeping my boys awake to long between naps and so they were taking terrible naps. And they cried a lot because they were tired. I finally figured out to put them down with less time in between and it made a big difference. They still go down for a first nap after only being awake for and hour and half. They go 2 1/2 to 3 hour(when they were your twins age, it was more like 2 hours between, with a short nap before dinner) before they take the next. I am always surprised how much they still need lots of sleep. Anyway, just a thought:) You can always email me with questions!...shareev@gmail.com I would love to help anyway I can.
ReplyDeleteThey are so cute!!! I'm very behind on blog reading and trying to play catchup!
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