Happy 3rd Birthday Monkey. We miss you more than words can say. We'll be laying low today, but celebrating in our own little way. It's hard to believe just three years ago you entered this world. It seems like a whole lifetime ago. You made us parents and changed us forever, in which we'll be forever grateful. I so desperately wish we had been preparing for a big Birthday party at our house tonight, but instead, your little brother and I went and decorated your headstone yesterday. Your dad and I will be thinking of you, and hoping you've never been happier.
Joseph Smith rightly taught:
"The mother who laid down her little child, being deprived of the privilege, the joy, and the satisfaction of bringing it up to manhood or womanhood in this world, would, after the resurrection, have all the joy, satisfaction, and pleasure, and even more than it would have been possible to have had in mortality, in seeing her child grow to the full measure of stature of it's spirit...When she does it there, it will be with the certain knowledge that the results will be without failure; whereas here, the results are unknown until after we have passed the test."
That's what I'm leaning on today.
Love you,
Mom and Dad
Mom and Dad
Love you Ashley! Happy birthday sweet Preslee!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Preslee. My thoughts are always with you Ashley. Thinking of you guys always.
ReplyDeleteLove, Jenni-Ohio
What a BEAUTIFUL quote!! LOVE it! Happy Birthday Preslee!
ReplyDeleteHappy Bday, sweet girl. Will be thinking of your family today.
ReplyDeletePraying for you today.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday sweet Preslee! It's a special day for me to its my dad's birthday. I feel like its an extra special day since you two share the same bday. :)
ReplyDeletethinking of you today...love you! the sommer clan
ReplyDeletehappy birthday sweet preslee!
ReplyDeleteI hope the happiest of memories of your darling girl can fill your heart today especially. Though you do not know me I have been praying for you all week. Happy birthday sweet Preslee!
ReplyDeletehappy birthday pres! loved the quote at the end! Love that Ledger was just a cheesin in the pic! love yall!
ReplyDeletehappy birthday beautiful girl...
ReplyDeletethinking of you and your family today.
Happy birthday to preslee! I love your tradition to see the lights at the temple. Love you guys
ReplyDeleteI know today has to be tough for you guys. Hang in there. So cute that Ledger is smiling so cute in the picture.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Preslee! Beautiful words today!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to your precious Preslee!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday little Pres! That is the sweetest picture of Ledger next to her grave. Especially that he is smiling!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Preslee. What a BEAUTIFUl post and BEAUTIFUL picture! Thinking of you and your family today!
ReplyDeleteYou are great with words Ashley! Thanks for sharing. Happy Birthday to your sweet baby girl!:)
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday sweet Preslee, I think I will always remember her birthday has it is exactly 20 days after our daughters. We are always praying for you!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday sweet Preslee! I don't know why but I just felt I should share this song with you:
ReplyDeletehttp://upliftyourselfs.blogspot.com/2011/12/there-is-still-my-joy.html
You continue to be in my prayers and thoughts.
All my thoughts and prayers are with you and I've been thinking of you all week long, knowing this day was coming. I wanted to do something special for your family but had a hard time knowing what to do. I settled on a simple card and a little gift for Ledger. It should arrive on Monday. I hope you have a good family day and can cherish all your beautiful memories of you sweet Preslee.
ReplyDeleteLove Amy, David & Family.
I have been leaning on that quote for 33 years now. The anniversary of our babies passing is coming up on the 30th of this month. We WILL have our day.....hang in there Ashley
ReplyDeleteLove
Gwen
Happy birthday sweet Preslee!
ReplyDeleteWe're thinking of your family today!
Happy Birthday Beautiful!! We miss you!
ReplyDeleteThinking of your and your family today! Hugs!
Breaks my heart. It's crazy how a small child I've never met can be on my mind so much. Happy Birthday Preslee!
ReplyDeleteWhat Joseph Smith taught.... What a comfort! Thinking of you always!
ReplyDeleteThinking of you guys and wishing Little Miss Pres a happy birthday today. We love you sweetheart. From you Aunt and Uncle, Jamie and Linsy.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Sweet Preslee!
ReplyDeleteThinking of your entire family on this beautiful day.
Jill L
Happy birthday Preslee!
ReplyDeleteI've never met you Ahsley but you are such a big source of comfort and inspiration to me.
I think you are amazing, and I know Preslee is so proud of you and how far you've come and your eternal perspective on life.
You are in my prayers!
what a sweet tribute. i hope y'all are blessed with peace and love.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday sweet presley!! Ash were thinking of your family, you are such a beautiful writter and momma!
ReplyDeleteI love that quote, It got me teary eyed!
Happy Birthday Miss Preslee. Prayers for comfort and joy today and every day.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Preslee! You have a very special family :D
ReplyDeletefrom a stranger I pray for you today as Preslee birthday is remembered. May you Sleep in Heavenly Peace tonight and dream of her.
ReplyDeleteAshley, The flowers look absolutely gorgeous with Preslee's white headstone and little Ledger being right there close to her with his cute smile just melts my heart. I hope that you and pat can remember how incredible you both felt that moment Preslee entered into your lives, three years ago a very sweet Angel was given to you. Hold on to all these precious feelings and memories and celebrate her birthday with love. Thank you for the quot from Joseph Smith, it really helped me as well in just knowing that if we live the way our Heavenly Father wants us to, rich blessing are in store. My prayers are with you this day.
ReplyDeleteAshley and Pat,
ReplyDeleteYou don't know me or my family, but we came across your blog through a friend. I have followed your story every since the accident and have felt very close to you guys. We have a little guy that shares a birthday with Preslee and I couldn't help but think yesterday that you too would have been celebrating your little 3yr old. my heart ached for you. I don't know what it is like to loose a child but I do know that you are a very blessed couple and have found strength. You inspire me to find the joy in little things with my 3 munchkins, sometimes life takes the fast track and we need to slow down and enjoy every moment as we don't know when our time is near. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are always with you. You have inspired so many people and it still amazes me as to the power of your little girls spirit. Happy Birthday Preslee.
Ashley, this post brought tears to my eyes. You are a woman of such strong faith and courage and such an example to me. There is seriously not a day that goes by that I don't think of you and send a prayer your way. Any time I go to hug my little ones, I hug them a little longer and a little tighter. Thank you for being so strong in the gospel and for posting little details in your life. You are an example to many. Preslee and your incredible family are changing peoples lives everyday. Thank you. Happy Birthday Preslee!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Little Preslee! I am sure she spent every moment with you Ashley. The words you shared by Joseph Smith are truly comforting and an amazing promise. These words from Ezra Taft Benson cam to mind while reading this “the spirit world is not far away. Sometimes the veil between this life and the life beyond becomes very thin. Our loved ones who have passed on are not far from us.” and Brigham Young taught us that the Spirit World is right here, on Earth. I don't know if these words help but for some reason I felt I should share them. You are still in my prayers and I hope that your Christmas is an amazing one.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday sweet, little Preslee. The flowers on the headstone look beautiful. I love that quote, so comforting to those who had to say goodbye to a child. My heart breaks for your family. I'm often surprised how hard I can cry over a family I've never met. I feel like I know you. :) I hope your family has a very Merry Christmas.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Sweet Preslee Girl. Your life has touched mine for good. I think of you and your family often. You are a lucky girl to have such wonderful parents.
ReplyDeleteThat doctrine that Joseph Smith taught IS a comfort...35 years ago, one of my little brothers died in a drowning accident when he was 3. My parents STILL lean on, and are comforted by, that doctrine. Peace and comfort to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteHold fast to those promises, Ashley. Your little guy looks so happy - that cute smile - like he knows something we don't. I think he probably does. He would probably tell you so many amazing and wonderful things about his sister if he could. BUT.....I think that is why little ones can't talk. I pray you will have a wonderful joyous Christmas. I know you have a great family, a sweet husband and your adorable little son to help you through each day. You are an amazing woman who has made a difference in many lives. Mary from SLC
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday sweet Preslee!! Hoping your family has a gently holiday. Prayers for them always!!
ReplyDeleteAshley-
ReplyDeleteThank you for your sweet comment about Brady's birthday. I just had to tell you that sitting in the hospital on Saturday, I kept thinking of Preslee and how he was born on her birthday. I know that we don't "really" know each other but your sweet little girl touched my heart and soul. I have looked at her picture so many times with hte 12/17/08 underneath and I think that it's just amazing that my sweet rainbow baby (that we waited for 3 years to be blessed with) was born on such a special date.
Hugs,
Trisha
Ashley-
ReplyDeleteI just your story on the Time Out for Women website and then more here on your blog. I am truly touched by your story in many ways. I admire you for the your faith and your ability to learn and hold on in it all.
My heart goes out to you and your family. My family know very well how difficult the month of December can be. In May of 2004 we lost my dear niece, my eldest sister's youngest to SIDS. She too was born on December 17 (in 2003). In the short time that we got to spend with her, she touch and every one of our hearts. Your blog posts have helped to be able to look at things in a different perspective - Thank you!