Meet Amy.
She's an incredible person. Amy has always helped me. She was my senior class adviser. (Back then I called her Mrs. Leatham) Being our adviser pretty much meant she had to spend hours helping seniors in high school outside of school. She always did, with a smile on her face. Many times she was more excited than I was. She never seemed to be upset that she had to help. I'm still amazed when we built the Senior Class float. About 4 people showed up to help. By the end, it was just the two of us. If I remember right she went back and finished it by herself because well, I'm not sure why. ha She really is one of the reasons why I wanted to become a teacher.
When we were down at PCMC I received a package from Amy. What she wrote in her note helped me make a tough decision. I still have that letter and refer to what it says quite often.
After the funeral I didn't feel like leaving the house much. She tracked down my phone number, and texted me. She insisted I join her and try Zumba! Zumba has made a big difference in my life. It has been my way to release a lot of negative energy. And who doesn't like to shake it? :) You would love it too if you could see Liz, the instructor! haha She loves what she does. I can't help but smile through the class. For an hour I seem to forget my worries.
Amy also took me to get a pedicure for Cancun. The list goes on and on.
You might wonder how Amy knew what I needed? Well I think it's because she understands trials. Difficult trials. Jace, Amy's 7 year old son was diagnosed with Leukemia a year ago last Saturday on 9/11. It's been a rocky road for their family, but through the whole experience she's been an incredible person to watch and learn from. And Jace, her son has an amazing attitude. It clearly reflects his parents.
On Saturday, on the anniversary of Jace's diagnosis, Amy put together a service project. We created 15 cancer bags. The turnout to help Amy was awesome. So many great people showed up, all bringing different items to donate for the bags. Once we got organized, we made an assembly line and filled the bags.
Remember my post below stating how I didn't necessarily know how to help a family with cancer? Well I've learned one way to help. So, I want to pass on the information. These are the items Amy asked us to bring and we filled a large canvas tote. A bag like this was given to Amy at the hospital by someone who understood. This bag helps them have everything ready for when they visit the hospital. Below is what it took to make.
1 large canvas tote.
thermometer
bandaids
face masks
hand sanitizer
we added a stuffed animal. :)
2 pens
1 fleece blanket
1 binder with tabs for all the information they receive at the hospital.
Granola Bars and gum. All the food needs to be something that will stay good.
Visit Jace's blog here Amy has a wonderful post about Saturday and it shows what Jace has overcome in the last year. Keep the Leatham family in your thoughts and prayers, they still have 2 years of chemo ahead of them.
Amy even gave me a bag to take with me to give to a family here in Rigby. As I feel helpless, and want to help this family I remembered how much all of your prayers helped us. Please pray for this sweet family. Click here to visit their blog.
Thanks Leatham family for letting us serve! We love you!
She's an incredible person. Amy has always helped me. She was my senior class adviser. (Back then I called her Mrs. Leatham) Being our adviser pretty much meant she had to spend hours helping seniors in high school outside of school. She always did, with a smile on her face. Many times she was more excited than I was. She never seemed to be upset that she had to help. I'm still amazed when we built the Senior Class float. About 4 people showed up to help. By the end, it was just the two of us. If I remember right she went back and finished it by herself because well, I'm not sure why. ha She really is one of the reasons why I wanted to become a teacher.
When we were down at PCMC I received a package from Amy. What she wrote in her note helped me make a tough decision. I still have that letter and refer to what it says quite often.
After the funeral I didn't feel like leaving the house much. She tracked down my phone number, and texted me. She insisted I join her and try Zumba! Zumba has made a big difference in my life. It has been my way to release a lot of negative energy. And who doesn't like to shake it? :) You would love it too if you could see Liz, the instructor! haha She loves what she does. I can't help but smile through the class. For an hour I seem to forget my worries.
Amy also took me to get a pedicure for Cancun. The list goes on and on.
You might wonder how Amy knew what I needed? Well I think it's because she understands trials. Difficult trials. Jace, Amy's 7 year old son was diagnosed with Leukemia a year ago last Saturday on 9/11. It's been a rocky road for their family, but through the whole experience she's been an incredible person to watch and learn from. And Jace, her son has an amazing attitude. It clearly reflects his parents.
On Saturday, on the anniversary of Jace's diagnosis, Amy put together a service project. We created 15 cancer bags. The turnout to help Amy was awesome. So many great people showed up, all bringing different items to donate for the bags. Once we got organized, we made an assembly line and filled the bags.
Remember my post below stating how I didn't necessarily know how to help a family with cancer? Well I've learned one way to help. So, I want to pass on the information. These are the items Amy asked us to bring and we filled a large canvas tote. A bag like this was given to Amy at the hospital by someone who understood. This bag helps them have everything ready for when they visit the hospital. Below is what it took to make.
1 large canvas tote.
thermometer
bandaids
face masks
hand sanitizer
we added a stuffed animal. :)
2 pens
1 fleece blanket
1 binder with tabs for all the information they receive at the hospital.
Granola Bars and gum. All the food needs to be something that will stay good.
Visit Jace's blog here Amy has a wonderful post about Saturday and it shows what Jace has overcome in the last year. Keep the Leatham family in your thoughts and prayers, they still have 2 years of chemo ahead of them.
Amy even gave me a bag to take with me to give to a family here in Rigby. As I feel helpless, and want to help this family I remembered how much all of your prayers helped us. Please pray for this sweet family. Click here to visit their blog.
Thanks Leatham family for letting us serve! We love you!
Thank you for posting this - it is such a great idea and I plan on making note of this so I have it for the future.
ReplyDeleteThere is a website that makes pillow cases for kids that have cancer - I've thought about doing it since it is such a simple thing for me to make. It's so great to serve and I know all those families will be so grateful for a small act done on their behalf! But you're right - prayer is needed also!
ReplyDeleteOnce again thank you for sharing a wonderful experience.I have a friend in Oklahoma whose little 4 year old girl has been going through Chemo for 5 or 6 months now. She's truly inspired me and helped me with so many questions. I think I'll put one of these together and send it to them. What a great idea. Thank You!!
ReplyDeleteSo, I am also a regular visitor of Jace's blog. I find their story very touching and Jace an incredible kid! Not to mention his parents and that big brother...definitely a special family! You and Amy are amazing examples to me and remind me daily how lucky I am to be a mother! Thanks for your example of service, I hope you understand all that you are doing for people like myself!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad Amy had a good turn out, I was home sick knowing that I am 2600 miles away from home and can't help at things like that. I want you to know you are in my prayers as well as the leatham family, thanks for being such a good example
ReplyDeleteAshley,
ReplyDeleteI am moved by your thoughts, feeling and your lessons you share. I learned of your blog around the time of the accident. I had a friend at PCMC with their little boy at the same time as you and your family. Their little boy was in a drowning accident as well.
I wanted to share this event that is coming to SLC and benefits PCMC specifically. I thought you may be interested.
www.torch-relay.org
I participated in it last year and it was emotional, fun, and a great way to give back to the amazing place so many of our children have unfortunately had to visit.
If you want to chat more about the event, I'd be happy to share. scolere@hotmail.com
You and your family are in my prayers daily for the strength to get you through every moment until you are able to reunite.
LeeAnn
Ashley,
ReplyDeleteYou do not know me. We have not ever met, but through the webs that others have weaved... I was led to your blog. My husband and I lived in Rigby for sometime and just recently moved to South Carolina. We still have a lot of contact with people in the area, which is how we first heard about a sweet baby girl named Preslee.
It has been interesting to me to find how many mutual people that we know. I just read your blog and realized that you know one of my VERY best friends, Farrah. My husband is from Rexburg and also knew Matt Leatham.
I have read your blog for a while and have never left a comment... as I was not sure what to say. I just wanted you to know that your family has been in our thoughts and prayers and now we are sharing the same concern and love for the Corbett family. I wish I was not 2400 miles away from Farrah right now. Give her a HUGE hug for me the next time you see her.
Sincerely,
Ashley Packer
Our 12 YR old was diagnosed with leukemia 5 YRS ago when he was 7. He had 2 1/2 years of treatment; chemo, surgery and 13 blood transfusions. He also had infections and many hospital stays. It was very hard but today he's healthy and has been off chemo for 3 YRS. He saw the oncologist yesterday(he goes once a year now for life) and shows no signs of relapse. There is hope!
ReplyDeleteIt is wonderful when you see someone who is going through such a trial, such a struggle and they are still able to reach out and help others. Amy and you are both inspiring to me and I'm sure to many others who read your blog. You said something in an earlier post about service. Service is what the Savior spent His life and gave His life doing. To serve someone is serving Him and loving someone is loving Him. He is our perfect example but you and Amy are such wonderful examples also. My niece (and her husband) are also good examples of trying to help when, as you so profoundly put it, "had something you love more than life ripped out of your arms." Blessings, hope, peace, prayers, and sisterly love to both you and Amy and your families.
ReplyDeleteMy niece's blog is: http://kendraandryanwebster.blogspot.com/
Ashley~ I have been following your blog since Preslee's accident. I live here in Rigby, also. With every post you amaze me more & more. This entry really hits home for me. My oldest daughter was diagnosed with leukemia when she was only 9 months old. We were told she had a pretty rough prognosis because of her age, but she proved them wrong. She is now a healthy, active, intelligent 9 year old...going on 10 years old next month. She has been cancer-free for over 9 years now! There is great hope for Jace. I will keep Jace & his family in my thoughts. These cancer bags you all did are so great! I can see every bit of them coming in handy. Such a great gift :)
ReplyDeleteHi Ashley,
ReplyDeleteWe don't know each other, but in a very powerful way I feel such a sense of love for you and your family. I check your blog every night and I look back to pictures of your sweet Preslee before I go to bed. I know she, and you, are making me a better mom. Thank you for sharing your story with all of us. Your strength and faith is inspiring.
XOXO,
Stacy from California
We don't know each other, but I want to tell you I think that you are amazing! I read your blog everyday, I love it. It gives me the strength I need when I am having a hard day. I admire you for the strength that you have had to have after losing your beautiful daughter. I often find myself saying " I can do hard things." That impacted me so much, and I want to thank you. I wish you and your husband the best, because you both deserve it. Take care, and have a good day. :)
ReplyDeleteAshley,
ReplyDeleteThank you for making me seem SO much better than I really am! ha I love you, and I love the comments from the families who have fought Leukemia. Thanks for supporting us. The best things in life aren't things; they are PEOPLE...just like Y O U! (Can't wait for Zumba!)
Amy
The Leatham Family is amazing :) I never had Amy for a teacher, but my brother Cole did and he looked up to her SO much! Jace is such a strong little boy from what I have seen and followed on their blog. We will keep both you and the Leatham fam in our prayers. Thanks for sharing Ash. You are awesome :)
ReplyDeleteKassie Crapo
Thank you for this post, Ashley! You've inspired me to find ways to serve those in my community, and I think I'm going to try Zumba! :)
ReplyDeleteThe binky story in the last post - how perfectly you nailed the way we feel in trials, like toddlers with binkies ripped out of their lives just wondering what happened and why. I love that you had this thought, this realization, and I love that you've shared it for others to learn. Thank you so much for sharing your feelings and struggles because it strengthens and uplifts those around you. You are blessing the lives of many!
ReplyDeleteI was given your blog through a former college roommate of mine from Ricks. My 9 year old son, Oliver, was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer two days before Christmas 2009. 90% of hildren diagnosed with DIPG (diffuse intrinsic pontine glioma) pass away with a year of diagnosis. It has been just over a year for Oliver and we are expecting a hard year, but still praying for a miracle. Once you enter the world of cancer, there is no exit. I'm happy to be a part of the '46 Mommas' 2011 team to raise money for St. Baldrick's, an organization that funds pediatric cancer research. THANK YOU for supporting your friend and THANK YOU for your honesty in your blog. It is a great support to be able to know that we are not alone in the things we feel. At times we feel as if we have to be perfect, but there are times when we break down. I am grateful for prayer and the knowledge that Heavenly Father is there. You will be in my prayers...
ReplyDeleteStacy Palmer
www.oliverpalmer.blogspot.com